When most men think of sex, their mind goes right towards the ending of the experience, which is about a 5-10 second spasm, ending in ejaculation and energetic depletion.
When you shift your mindset from focusing on this singular point of the experience, to a mindset of service and pleasure for your partner, it changes the whole energy and dynamic of your experience, and hers.
As men, we should not make sex about our pleasure, but rather take pleasure in giving freely to our partner. In this way she, as the feminine energy, will open herself completely to you because you will not just be penetrating her physically, but with your mind, and most importantly your heart.
It is the feminine nature to want to reciprocate what she receives. Give your partner freedom, she will give you freedom. Give your partner empowerment and she will empower you.
Give her spiritual growth and pleasure and she will give you back the same.
If you try and control her, she will fight back. If you try and tame her up and down nature, she will resent you.
When you shift your mindset from a receiver to a giver, everything will change, both in and outside the bedroom.
If you have any questions or thoughts feel free to reach out at any time.
