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Love your wife... but your relationship is boring?

Love your wife but bored out of your mind with your relationship?

Has all the passion dried up? Perhaps the responsibilities of life have taken the romance and excitement from your relationship?

Be honest... find yourself day dreaming about another woman (or two)?

If you are experiencing this, I want you to know that you are not a bad guy, it is pretty normal for long-term relationships.

Problem is, NORMAL SUCKS!! Stay as far away from "normal" as you can.

Just because you have been together for a long time doesn't mean the passion and excitement has to die.

Imagine the next time you looked at your wife you felt excitement, like when you first started dating. Imagine wanting to rush home from work to spend time with her instead of taking the "scenic route" home, or even worse, getting home only to spend hours scrolling through Instagram girls.

What would life be like if you could re-spark that fire and cultivate it into a white hot passionate relationship again?

Remember the days when you couldn't keep your hands off each other?

If you want those day again, you have to put in effort. Follow these steps and you will notice a massive improvement in passion and attraction in your relationship quickly!

Step 1: No Porn/No Masturbation

When you masturbate and watch porn you are taking all your natural drive away. The challenge with porn and masturbation is that it tricks your mind into thinking you are getting laid, when in reality you are getting off to some pixels on a screen.

When you stop masturbating and watching porn, your natural drive to get laid will come back and you will realize that you have to put in the work (like you use too). This will re-balance your hormones , especially your dopamine system which will motivate you to pursue your wife again instead of satisfying that need through unnatural ways like porn/masturbation.

Step 2: Keep a gratitude journal

Your wife is your subconscious mind. She reflects back to you all the aspects of you that you either love or hate about yourself. If you cannot see that your wife is taking on your mood and reflecting it back to you then you are blind.

I know this may be a hard pill to swallow, but once you accept that your wife is you, then there is no more blaming her. The only way to have a passionate, exciting and fun relationship is to take 100% responsibility for your attitude of mind when it comes to your wife.

Keep a journal, you don't have to share it with anyone. Every day write down 3-5 things you are grateful for in regards to your wife and watch the magic happen. When you inject an attitude of gratitude into your relationship everything will change.

Step 3: Plan your next date night

Stop being lazy and waiting for her to make a move. When is the last time you surprised her? When is the last time you planned a date night without asking her, "what do you want to do?" Like anything in life, you get what you put into it. The real reason most relationships stop being passionate is because men stop dating their wives and start placing unspoken or unrealistic expectations on them. If you want to have an exciting relationship, filled with adventures both in and outside the bedroom, then you have to create it. If you are ready to create a dynamic relationship both in and outside the bedroom, you must become a master of your sexual energy. Mastery takes practice and guidance. If you want to cut the learning curve in half and save yourself years of a boring unfulfilling relationship let's connect. You can start with a free consultation to discuss the challenges you face in your relationship and I will be happy to help, Click the link below and let's connect. Nakula


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